For men who are trying to get their Ex out of their head and take back their power....

Write This Short, Simple Letter…

…And Get Over Her For Good

Without spending hours in "talk therapy", trying to figure out why it ended or spending countless hours numbing or distracting yourself from the pain

After My Marriage Ended, I Was Alone and Furious...


I could barely function.

I couldn't think straight.

All the while, trying to not get too hung up on the idea that there might be hope further down the line.

When the memories from the past came up, I was either balling my eyes out or hot with anger.

The worst moments came when she picked up the kids.

All I wanted to do was yell at her or try to win her back.

Meanwhile...

She acted normal, like nothing was wrong...

Everything to her seemed "fine".

All the while...

I Had Never Felt So Alone In My Life

This lasted for months.

I knew I needed help but I didn’t know what to do.

So I went to my friends...


But...

No One Could Relate To What I Was Going Through

In fact, most of my "friends" started moving further away.

Or gave me generic advice like "go to the gym" or "find someone new!"

But none of them understood.

Which left me more isolated and alone than ever.

So I Did Anything I Could to Stop Thinking About Her

I focused on keeping my mind busy.

💪 I worked out.

🥃I did projects around the house.

🎥I worked long hours

Anything to avoid thinking about her and this life I didn't plan on.

But she continued to haunt me like a bad dream...

...that kept repeating night after night.

I thought this lingering pain would last forever.

I thought that the pain, loneliness and endless thoughts of her was just "normal".

Until one day, I was speaking with a neighbor who told me about a program called "Rebuilders".

After seeing the case studies and stories, I signed up for their next group program.

And 2 weeks into the program, I did something that changed my life...

I Wrote a Short Letter That Helped Me Get Over My Ex For Good

I sat down the day before it was due and started.

The emotions poured out of me.

The unresolved pain rushed out of me.

As I was writing it I knew this is what I needed.

It felt so good to not keep everything bottled up.

After it was done, I felt…different.

I Had Turned a Page and "Let Go" of Her

My ex was no longer, "my ex"...

She was just a person from my past.

I no longer cared who she dated or what she did.

We were done.

I felt free.

I Quickly Started Dating Again Without Feeling Triggered From The Past...

Looking back at that one exercise, I realize that this was the most challenging, best experiences of my life.

So much so, I had found my new calling.

I decided to quit my high paying job as a president of a manufacturing company...

To become a partner in Rebuilders to help other men who were ready to let go of their ex and move on.

The sad reality is, many men get stuck in a nightmare of loneliness, isolate and anxiety while trying to "get over their ex".

And I want you to understand right now...

Your Thoughts About Your Ex Are NOT The Problem...

You're probably like most of the men we work with.

They come to us and say...

"I just want to get her out of my head..."

And if you go to a therapist, they will tell you to focus on your future. Or they will try review your "origin story" and figure out "how you got to this point".

Think of it like this...

If you're asking yourself questions like

  • What happened?

  • Why?

  • What was my role? (And what was hers?)

  • What could I have done differently?

  • How do I not repeat the cycle in the future?

These are the "unanswerable questions".

Here's why...

If you and I went through these questions and came up with all of the answers..

...you would still keep asking yourself the same questions.


Nothing would change.

You would still be sitting there thinking about your ex even if you had the answers to every question.

It's like trying to grab a fistful of water.

The Answers to the Questions are NOT the solution.

There is something UNDERNEATH the questions.


Men focus on trying to "figure it out".

We are problem solvers.

We use our brain to solve problems all day. This is just another problem to solve.

But it doesn't work that way.

The head and the heart operate differently.

So instead we focus on on the letter.

The letter allows us to tap into what's inside of us.

No more thinking.

It is heart centered.

It is healing.

It works.

Release The Relationship And Start The Next Chapter Of Your life

When you move through this process...

You will write this short simple letter...

...you won't have to think anymore.

We now know that thinking doesn't get you anywhere.

Taking action IS the solution.

You WILL have closure.

A release to move on with your life.

To take back your power.

So you can date and live your life without feeling tied to the past.

We do this by writing a short, simple letter.

We've now helped hundreds of men turn the page and start a new chapter.


It all starts with writing this one simple letter.

If You're Ready To Get Over Her for Good, I Invite You To Join Us Inside

RELEASE TO REBUILD

If you give me one hour...

To write a short, simple letter...

I guarantee you'll never think about your ex the same way again.

So you can turn the page and move on with your life.

I know because...

We’ve Helped Hundreds of Men Reclaim Their Sense of Power and Purpose

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Here’s Exactly How It Works

When you sign up, you’ll receive a short video.

This will show you exactly how to move through the Release to Rebuild process.

If you have questions, you can get them answered inside our private members only group.

This group will act as your sanctuary to express how you're feeling.

To no longer tackle this while feeling alone and isolated.

And once you complete the exercise…

You’ll unlock access to a live group session to connect with others and share your experience.

So if you're ready to move forward…

Here's what's included

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3 Videos

You will learn the most effective format and prompts for the letter.

You will learn how to write it

And you will learn WHY it is important and what you can expect.

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Access to an online group

You can connect with others that are going through the same situation as you. Give and get support.

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Divorce Recovery Roadmap

Get an objective plan for where you should focus your time and attention. This unique, personalized report will give you an accurate understanding of where you are hitting the mark, and where you aren't!

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Unlock 3 Bonuses

Upon completing the letter, as an incentive, we give THREE valuable bonuses at no additional cost. Now you can get some additional tools and information that will continue to help you as go down the path of divorce recovery.

To Get Over Her For Good...

To make space for a new life that is waiting for you...

The price to move through this process together is a one time payment of $27 for lifetime access.

Inside, we’ll guide you through the Release to Rebuild exercise to write your short letter and be done with your ex for good.

While providing you a safe space to ask questions and receive personalized support.

If the Release to Rebuild exercise doesn't help lift the pain to create a new, brighter future...

...I'll give you a full refund, no questions asked.

But the chances of that happening is slim.

Because most of our members share a similar theme.

Just like one of our members who said...

"I've been through hundreds of hours of therapy and NOTHING has helped me like this program".

If you’re ready to let go of your ex and reclaim your personal power, click the button below, confirm your details and write your letter.

Looking forward to seeing you get over your ex and live the life you've always wanted...

- Kevin Van Liere

Common Questions We Get From Men About This Process:

I’ve heard that it takes one year to let go for every 5 years that I was married. Is that true?

That’s actually a myth. It’s a way to say “You’ll get used to it, but it will take a long time.” That’s when you do nothing. We have refined the recovery process to a science. You can do nothing and hope it goes away, or you can do the work, one time and start living again. I too was surprised that I could release my past so quickly. I assumed that it was “just the way it was” and that it would take a long time to heal. Turns out I was wrong. 

What if it doesn’t work?

You get out of it what you put into it. If you go to the gym and don’t exercise will you get stronger? No. If you lift for an hour will you be sore and stronger? Yes. However, if you do the work and show us that you have done it, and get nothing out of it we will refund your money. No questions asked.

How does it work?

This is a straight-forward, no fluff exercise. We are going to explain what to do, how to do it, why it works, and what NOT to do. We are also going to give you examples so that you can see others going through the exercise. You can also listen to others about their experience. Once you do the exercise you will unlock some additional tools that we have found helpful. All of the information is delivered in multiple formats - mostly by video that you can watch at your own pace. Most people can do the exercise in an hour. Some like to do some work, then come back to it a day later and do some more. Whatever works for you is fine.

How is this different from everything else out there?

Nearly everything on the market comes from “experts” that have done lots of training and education to understand psychology, therapeutic methods, and tips and tricks. This isn’t a theory. This is how to do the work. Thousands of people have done this exercise through our organization. We have refined it over and over to give you the information you need to just do it. No more talking, discussing, contemplating, evaluating, or processing. For example, we could spend a day talking about how to play golf - and you still wouldn’t be any better than you were at the start of the day. If you actually play, that is where the growth is. So we will show the exercise and you will see that it is different. No more BS. No more dancing around the issues. One hour of doing the work. That is all we ask.

What if I have questions?

We have a number of ways that you can get support. We are committed to helping people have amazing lives after divorce and heartbreak. Email, texting, live chat - we are here to help you!

Kevin Van Liere

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